Vivian Nkwiruka, wife of popular Nigerian comedian and actor Nkubi (real name Nwaogu Udochukwu Victor), has shared a shocking experience she faced during her pregnancy. In a candid interview on Pulse Nigeria’s Pulse One on One show, Vivian recounted an insensitive and unprofessional encounter with a doctor while undergoing an anomaly scan,a prenatal ultrasound designed to detect fetal abnormalities.
During the scan, the doctor asked if anyone in her family had dwarfism. When Vivian confirmed that her husband lives with the condition, the doctor allegedly responded in a deeply inappropriate and judgmental manner:
“Why didn’t you go to your brother-in-law or go outside to get pregnant instead of getting pregnant for your husband? Or even get a sperm donor?”
Vivian described the experience as hurtful and shocking, highlighting the emotional impact such comments can have on expectant parents. Many have taken to social media to condemn the doctor’s remarks, noting that healthcare professionals are expected to provide care with compassion, understanding, and respect, rather than judgment.
This incident sheds light on a broader issue: the bias and prejudice that people with disabilities and their families often face, even in professional and medical settings. Experts emphasize the importance of sensitivity and awareness in healthcare, particularly when discussing reproductive choices and family planning.
Vivian’s story serves as a reminder of the need for empathy and professionalism in medical practice. Everyone deserves a safe and supportive environment during pregnancy, free from stigma and discrimination.
